1. Faith-First Approach

• Jonathan emphasizes that dating should originate in one’s relationship with God. Prioritizing personal spiritual growth helps guide discernment, purpose, and integrity in relationships.YouTubeApple Podcasts

  2. Intentionality Over Casual

  Rather than casual or recreational dating, the episode advocates dating with purposeful intentionality—seeking clarity on future goals, compatibility, and alignment of values.

  3. Standards & Boundaries

  Green flags such as emotional maturity, spiritual alignment, honesty, and vision are discussed. Pokluda highlights the importance of maintaining clear boundaries—spiritual, emotional, and physical—to protect individuals and the integrity of the relationship

  4. Balance of Physical Attraction & Emotional Connection

  While physical chemistry is acknowledged, the episode stresses that it must not overshadow deeper compatibility—including character, faith, and emotional maturity.

  5. Role of Community & Church

  Engaging with church community is presented as essential—not just for external accountability, but for receiving wisdom, prayer support, and counsel throughout the dating journey.

  6. Navigating Hard Questions

  The conversation addresses how to handle doubts, emotional wounds, and disappointment. Pokluda encourages honest communication, spiritual resilience, and learning from past experiences.